Not smart enough
Not tall enough
Not thin enough
Not talented enough
Not quiet enough
Not girly enough
Not organized enough
Not sane enough
Not friendly enough
Not compassionate enough
Not outgoing enough
Not focused enough
Not attentive enough
Not good enough
Too lazy
Too messy
Too tomboyish
Too daydreamy
Too fat
Too loud
Too wild
Too inattentive
Too random
Too strange
When you've heard these things almost every day of your life, even when you're hoping for something good to happen, it's hard not to believe them.
Thanks for all of the non encouragement, and tearing me down just a little further than I already was today.
I wonder how many times she's heard this...
She's not a size 2, she has more tattoos than I do, she's gone through a lot of what I have, and she's still come out on top. I don't know how she's done it.